Getting out of the closet

There seems to be huge problem with guys, society and I even see the same problem in me. Nowadays most of guys are very insecure about their sexuality and they cannot and don't know how to express it. They are sexualy submissive, passive and lacking masculine qualities and self-respect. Most heterosexual men are practically living in a closet unable to express their sexuality in a masculine way, because of fear and rules of proper behaviour.
Even if some men are able to express sexuality we as men usualy have no idea what women like even if we have had multiple partners.
Why? I think the reason why this is because of media and porn. By watching porn men begin to think that masculine sexuality is expressed by being a grunting dildo. The most important components for good sex are always lacking, intimicy, emotion and trust. It doesn't help that media subcommunicates to us that men have to be good looking, famous, rich, super men to please women. However to really please woman you don't need none of those things.
The most important thing is that your partner trusts you enough to surrender completely into your arms. If you are willing to be the man your partner can surrender to, you will always be able to give most profound sexual experiences and be the lover that women dream about.
If you are willing to travel the same path as I do you will find out that the journey doesn't only take you to the woman's heart but most importantly into your own. No matter how frustrated you are today I can promise from personal experience that you can gain the ability to be the ideal lover, it's our birthright as men.